today is the long awaited day since christmas..the day when all the cash machine ran out of money, the day when credit card hit it jackpot users at a million and the day that not worth spending anywhere else except at shopping complex....in my case the CO....
we get up at 7am,rush to have breakfast at DK house at around 7.40am and then rush to CO with KY and AS.....
my 1st angry mode for that day is...
waiting for him getting ready for 15 minutes in the car...grrrrrrr
i
get there and rushing with all the shopaholic to get the best bargain....my oh my.....it does takes lots of stamina tokeep on fighting for thr right size with the right design......
my 2nd angry mode for that day....
he ask to go separate way for shopping as he mentioned
' i only had a 1/10 of your need to buy item that i want to go and it wont take much time as yours...give me a call when you need me'....ggrrrrrr
keep on shopping....i dont mind as my mind is busy calculating the budget........
my 3rd angry mode for that day
he make a stupid jokes at the lunch table with our friends.....ohhhh.....please grow up.....grrrrrr
my 4th angry mode for that day...
he said
'tak paham bahasa ke jgn batalkan my wudhuk when I ACCIDENTALLY brush against his hands in my effort to give him his favourite chestnut while struggling with the loads of shopping bag...'
that make me stunned and break into tears silently on our home....grrrrrrr
my 5th angry mode for the day....
when he made another childish act at DK house with his irrelevant jokes of MMB.....i dont give a damn about it..itsnot funny at allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll......im tired and i want to go back.......arrrgggghhhhh
there goes my long awaited day.....
timberland size 8 shoes doesnt have anymore meaning, the NEXT maternity trousers that cost a fortune doesnt give me any satisfaction, the baby GAP bundle of clothing is left on the floor....interestless and waiting to be kick in my angry mode....and even my new eyeshadow doesnt give any extra brightness as it claims......
he did try his very best..I know...busy finding presents for my bro when I'm busy on my angry mode, searching for the best insurance cover when im busy walking from door to door finding the best bargain and willingly escorting my maniac shopping spree visits to CO when he can choose to play futsal with his friend instead and buying me the M&S belgian choc that I had longed for so long (5 boxes of it)......
its not that I'm ungrateful...but its really getting on my nerves sometimesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.......
pstttt...baby...mama bought you a cute baby GAP vest with matching hats.......we will check on it when mama feel a ltlle bit calmer ok baby......for the time being let your papa had his sleep in hungry mode..padan muka......:D
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Waahhh...syioknya, shopping free...
I can relate to that hubby x larat to follow every step around the mall. My 'Ayah' oso like that one. Over the years, we have mastered the skill to avoid unnecessary arguments. We settled for our own personal undisturbed shopping time, while still going shopping 'together'. i.e he can spend however long he wants at the electrical & IT dept to belek2 digi cam ke, notebook & peripherals ke, sound system & sub woofer ke..whatever. To me, sama jer, tekan button amik gambar or keluar sound, hehehe... Just like he (still)cant understand, "lawa tak this color? which is nicer bang - floral or geometric design? funny tak bang nampak my toes keluar cam tu?" hehehe... 2 X 5 la actually.
but the wudhuk thing... yeah it can be very painful indeed. but someone taught me something, and i shall pass it to u too now
(Muahahaha..... sessi penurunan ilmu!).
They're upset because it mattered to them. Not that we don't understand it, but perhaps the way they conveyed their upset to us, could have been better. But because they just lashed out like that, kita pulak jadi upset - so insensitive tau, bukan kita sengaja pun. So that makes 2 upset people. ( So far betul eh?)
Now, this Sifu told me, if this kind of situation happens, to help manage both feelings, do not hesitate (ever!) to offer the first apology. Aiyo...so common advice you would say. Nanti sat, this Sifu did not stop there. I was told to keep on apologising, soapily, eg sorry bang, really... i really didn't mean to ..(whatever)... i wouldn't want to spoil it for you, i know how you treasure it. but it was an accident bang, very-very sorry. i'm just a clumsy human. oh... how clumsy & careless of me to have caused you to lose ...(whatever) ... oh! sorry! sorry! mintak ampun bang dari hujung rambut sampai hujung kaki. maaf zahir batin bang! maaf kan tak? tolong la... sedangkan nabi ampun kan umat..sorry bang, sorry....
(and on and on you should ramble sounding very apologetic).
He should say the first ok shortly after. You continue a bit more sounding very apologetic.
He should say ok agai ( hopefully).
After that only should you start the silent treatment or the let the tears flow ( i know i some situations rasa macam dah x bleh nak control the tears). Don't sulk, just keep silent. How long...errr... u have to use your judgement. Jgn la sampai 24 jam. Tak baik nooo.... :)
Cuba try.. hehehe... if it still doesn't work next time, i'll 'turunkan' the next instalment of 'managing difficult times in relationships'. yeah...FOC, while i'm still not famous yet. LOL !!!
You take care my dear!
Ibu:
It really works....thank you so much. Now, he seems more relax eventhough I know that I annoyed him with my absent minded action sometimes....blame it on the hormone and said sorry and everything is forgiven...
As for the shopping conflict..cannot helplah..memang we are born to be different....maybe that make us attracted to one another...BTW i agree,, whatever is the name of the gadget..as long as it works... i dont bother to know the specs for it.....camera will still be a camera at the end of the day..its not going to change your whole dress like what a bag can make on your appearance..kan..kan....:D
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